When I was pregnant with my daughter, I was super organised and I had every pregnancy app downloaded to my phone. I “googled” my heart out when it came to what I needed to pack for my hospital bag, and many where very similar in what I needed.
But then, many of them where generic and suitable for everyone and even though I thought I was prepared for the hospital stay, there were some things I wish someone had told me.
This time around I feel like I am armed with experience, armed with knowledge and armed with a community of amazing moms who have given the most amazing suggestions from their own experiences.
This might all sound rather ridiculous, I mean it is only 1-3 nights in the hospital? Why would you need so much stuff and planning?
Having your first baby can be very daunting, and overwhelming, the unknown is all too real, and this is no different for your 2nd, 3rd and so on. Each birth and baby is different, your needs at the time are different to.
With the following to consider:
- Will my baby latch to the breast?
- How will my breasts cope? Sore? Inverted Nipples? Leak? Milk come in or not?
- Planned a natural birth, but end up having a caesarean and now staying in the hospital longer?
- Baby might have jaundice or need to stay in for observation?
- Second baby? Have you considered the sibling? What will you do with them while you are in hospital?
- You might not like the brands the hospital wants to use, and prefer organic?
The list can go on.
And you know what MOM, that is fine, it is what mothers do best, we over think, we plan, we prepare (well most of us). We want to be the “perfect mom” and not skip a beat. That’s okay and a normal part of whats happens during your final weeks of pregnancy. And you know what… if you do forget something, I am sure your husband, partner, friend or family could go to the shops and get what you need.
SO… collectively let’s not PANIC…
Let’s follow that Boy’s Scouts motto and “Always be prepared”
Personally I don’t think you need to worry about less is more etc? If you have enough room in your car, and space in your bag, pack those just in case items, if it settles your mind, then so what. Don’t let the comments like “you are not packing for a week” scare you off. It will drive you totally “NUTS” if you end up being in hospital and wishing you had packed that extra pair of PJs because now you have an unexpected stain, and you want to wear something clean.
This is how I am preparing for my hospital stay with baby No2, the below is based on my own experience and how I wish to pack my bags. You might want to do something different and that is okay.
WHAT WILL BE IN MY HOSPTIAL BAGS?
The items in my bag, might change or swap as I reach closer to my due date, but I will much prefer to have bags packed and ready now. I have a toddler to worry about, and I am usually the last on my priority list. So I don’t want to be sitting the night before fretting about what to take, sorting out toddler, checking forms etc? Worry about supper and the house on my return.
I was sent a beautiful leather diaper backpack from Jan Pierewiet, which has become one of my favourite accessories. It is large enough to pack a number of items for baby for the hospital stay, and is very practical. If you have stayed in hospital before, or visited family and friends, you should have noticed the size of the closet space that is allocated per person. They are normally tall in shape and narrow, that means you have to pile your bags up one on top of each other. So think about maybe 2/3 smaller bags, instead of one big suitcase you might have to try cram into your allocated space or leave on the floor.
When considering purchasing a “baby bag”, “diaper bag” think of your needs and practicality. For me a backpack works well for a mom on the go, with a toddler and baby (watch out for my full review on the Jan Pierewiet bag)
What I learned from last time:
Some things might be obvious and some well… not so much. These are some items I did not pack, or I did not have the right type…
Lip Balm – TUB not Tube… this is so vitally important!! Cannot stress enough. The hospital rooms can be dry due to the aircon, and you want to have perfectly soft lips, because you won’t be able to stop kissing your little baba. Why a tub… well my first time, I had a tube, and it kept on rolling off the damn hospital table tray thingy and on the floor. I could not easily retrieve it (c-section and all), and had to wait for a kind soul to return to help me get it. ANNOYING!!!! – and something that stuck with me since then (2.5 years) – so it made an impact. This time I am packing my Ben Rabbit Lip Balm – it’s made of natural ingredients so I can kiss baby lots without worrying.
Small mirror – if you have a c-section you can’t walk around easy just yet on the first day. You might want to check your face or hair? Especially when lots of photos will be taken of you and baby.
Dry Shampoo – this is if you can’t wash your hair or don’t want to do it in hospital. Keep looking fresh, for all those happy family snaps.
Headphones – there might be times you will want to drown out the sound of other people’s babies crying in the ward… just saying… You can also listen to voice notes privately on your phone from loved ones, or calming music to relax or a funny video if need be. I never watched TV the first time, in hospital, but hey never, say never.
Snacks – I like to snack, and especially when I am sitting in one place for long… I know that is not always great, but there is a lot of energy that you need to consume to start recovering and generating all that lovely milk for baba. This time I am packing some healthy snacks to get me through the meals. This includes my fav at the moment Vivex Crunch Probiotic Snack bar… addictive I tell you, and I might give hubby one or two, while he is visiting too.
Something to read – To help the nerves or to give your partner some time with the baby, back a magazine or two to read or bag through as a distraction.
Breastfeeding? You need these….
Breast pads – your milk could come in early while in hospital, and you won’t want to be caught unawares. My brand of choice has always been NUK.
Breastfeeding bras – last time I bought bra’s from a well-known brand, seen in all the shops and baby sections. I was not a fan, they were uncomfortable and totally not pretty, I felt frumpy and like I should just have a mom bun and baggy pants. This time around I treated myself to bra’s from Sophie and Jane, I have been living in them… since I started expanding.
Nipple Cream – if you are going to splurge on something, splurge on a good nipple cream, you won’t regret it. You want it to be very pasty, so it does not absorb quickly and protects your nipples from the coming onslaught. I had never heard of Lansinoh before, when I was in hospital with Skylar a breastfeeding consultant came in and helped me, and suggested the brand, it was a life saver, and I have bought it again this time around.
What I won’t pack this time
Disposable panties – I will rather buy some cheaper underwear and use those instead, and discard if I need to. I did not need to do that last time, and not saying this pregnancy will be the same anyway?
NO gigantic maternity pads – the hospital provides if I need, and I would rather use regular sanitary pads, they absorb the red stuff just as well, and keep lock it in, really… you also don’t waddle like a duck. But each to their own. (the hospital might insist on the first day you wear, and then so on you can choose).
Winter PJs – the maternity ward is sooo hot, well the last time I was there it was boiling. The nurses have it at a different tempreture to the rest of the building to keep the babies warm. I battled to stay cool, this time I am packing light wear and one ligh jersey just in case.
Don’t be afraid to ask for extra pillows from the nursing staff, if it makes you feel comfortable on your bed.
If you LOVE to take photos… then remember to pack some items to help you remember the moments.
This time I will be packing my little tripod for my phone, photo props – including the Fable and Lifestyle letter board , I have become addicted to my letterboard, and I think its a fun way to use for a baby announcement or anything fun you might want to do with baby in hospital, plus some cute outfits.
If you are going to a private hospital, most will supply you with a number of items for baby, when you book your bed, they should give you a list. Ask if they don’t tell you. YOu may also request what brands they are including in the list of items. Where I am having baby, they will supply a few items, except diapers. I have to take those.
BUT… you might not be happy with the brand they will provide. If you are selective and have grown to like certain types of products (especially if this is your second and you have tried and tested). Pack your own, you are not obliged to use what they give you.
I will be taking my BabyDove baby wash, for a very mild wash, as I don’t want to fully wash baby, just face and the delicate boy bits. I swear by BabyDove now, I have used it for just under a year with Skylar, and she has no more dry skin problems.
When I was in hospital the first time, the nurses advised using cotton wool and warm water to clean your baby when they need a change of diaper. You can also choose to use or not use bum cream with your newborn for the first couple of days, their skin is very sensitve and can react easily to creams being placed on them. Did you know that the Pampers newborn diapers have a built in “bum cream” so you should be fine for the first few days.
A soother of YOUR choice, I chose NUK for my first child, but she was not so much into the whole soother thing, but her brother might be totally different, so just in case I am packing a Nuk – 0/6 soother for him. I don’t want to use a cheap, no name brand, that could be supplied by the hospital, for many reasons.
If you want to know more about why I choose NUK, you can watch a video about it here:
A soft toy from mom and dad and sister (sibling/s if you they have) – we chose the Lily ‘n Jack Snuggle Bunny.
There are many more practical things you will need – see more in the downloadable tick list I have created for you.
ON THE NOTE OF SIBLINGS…
A great idea I have seen many parents include is a gift from baby to the sibling/s, a kind gesture to help introduce each other, and show some fuss to them too.
You could also look at getting a gift from the sibling to baby, that they bring along to the first hospital visit. I think its so important to make them feel part of this too.
You will need to pack a bag for your child/children, if they are staying over elsewhere while you and hubby are in hospital. Pack a first meeting outfit for your older child, if dad or grandparents are bringing them through, ask them to dress your little in that special outfit for the hospital. (Even if you need to put it in a bag and put a big label on it). And remind them of the gift they need to bring too…
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